I played Demise for about two years, got banned twice (for foul language) and jailed by the staff (for reskilling a guy, wow.) They also banned a friend of mine for logging onto a guy's computer while she was visiting him irl. We told them about this in IRC, and they said they'd "look into it," but never unbanned my friend. I put all my gear/arties/gold/etc. in a trash barrel and deleted all my characters right then :\

Shattered Legacy http://www.uoshatteredlegacy.com however, has good, helpful staff members who aren't ban-happy so I play there now.

I play free servers, and thought I'd check this site out. Looks great so far