I play a lot of shards and have found some that had good changes in them, Akara Essex is one of them. The Leveling system is,I think is Unique. It allows you to place skill points where you need them. I still die a lot, But at least I'm able to fight well.
check them out and let me know what you think.
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And the gm's are friendly as well.
You will know me I Die A Lot.