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General => Off Topic => Topic started by: Bookwyrm on November 16, 2009, 06:49:00 PM

Title: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Bookwyrm on November 16, 2009, 06:49:00 PM

Last month, my wife of 12 years passes away in her sleep. This came as a horrible shock to everyone that knew her -she had been perfectly healthy except for a small (we thought) heart condition.

I know I have not been a terribly active member of the SUO site and that has bothered me. I could blame it on that cornball free server I was on but I would have to say my heart is just not in it anymore.

Perhaps one day I will go back to my old home on Napa Valley just so I can piss off some GM's. Until that time I am afraid that I am withdrawing fully from this community.

I wish you all the best of luck in every endeavor.

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Masscre on November 16, 2009, 06:58:47 PM

My prayers go out to you fellow scripter. May the breezes of life continue to be a guide for you so you can find some uplifting postives in all this.  If you need an ear to lean your way for some time my icq is on here message me.  I am a good listener.  God bless you and your family my friend.

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Toptwo on November 16, 2009, 06:59:08 PM

Very sorry to hear of your loss Bookwyrm. We will be here if/when you come back. Take care.

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Superslayer on November 16, 2009, 07:03:41 PM

Wow Bookwyrm, I'm horribly sorry to hear this. Though I don't know you well, I certainly do know how it feels to loose a loved one (my brother in this case) but surely not the same. Mine, and my family's thoughts are with you and your family, through this, and those to come, times of need, hope and friendship. SUO does not matter, and should not for you in this time. Your place is with your family, as it is with all of ours outside of this place.

Please do what is right, and if you feel the desire to say hi down the road, we'll be here.

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: TrailMyx on November 16, 2009, 07:45:15 PM

Oh my Bookwyrm, I'm so sad to hear of your loss; I'm absolutely shocked!  Know that you're always welcome here and we'll definitely miss you.  So don't worry about this community at all; we'll be here when you decide to come back.  Also if there's anything I can do for you personally, please give me a PM.  I'm not a praying type, but if I did I'd certainly say one for you.

For all those who don't know BW, he's one of the best people we've had in the past few sites like this.  Especially uocoders where he beat up my Elite scripts pleanty!

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Scrripty on November 16, 2009, 07:48:05 PM

After becoming a cancer survivor myself Book, I fully understand the power a few prayers sent your way can have.  I'll say a few for you and your family also.

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: NObama on November 16, 2009, 07:51:31 PM

We mourn your loss.  Come seek solace here anytime.

 :'(

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: _C2_ on November 16, 2009, 08:15:59 PM

You will always be welcome here.  I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  Maybe we will cross paths with you again in the future.  Until then, be well.  My thoughts will be with you.

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Endless Night on November 16, 2009, 08:49:49 PM

I just dont know what to say Bookwyrm, that must be/have been a terrible time.  I just recently lost my motherinlaw and that was pretty bad; I carnt imagine loosing a spouse.  Dont worry about us here at SUO if you ever decide to return we probably will still be around ... Please look after yourself...

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Wilk on November 16, 2009, 09:25:37 PM

My sincere sympathy for you and your family Bookwyrm. Take care.

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: cgeorgemo on November 16, 2009, 09:40:24 PM

Bookwyrm I am the praying type and I pray that the Lord would give you comfort in your pain and guidance in your life.
God Bless and Keep you always...

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Coragin on November 16, 2009, 10:07:27 PM

I know how it is to lose someone so close.  I know nothing will take the pain away or even lessen it, so I pray God give you strength through the hard time you are going through.  We will be here for your return if that should happen someday.

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Oracle on November 16, 2009, 10:34:25 PM

To think that you took the time enough to tell us what's going on in your life and let us know of your loss is truly touching.  I did not know you personally, but only heard of you.   I am also the "praying type" and I will say a few for you and the family...please add my condolences to the many that you have already received.  My heart and prayers go out to you..

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: Bookwyrm on November 17, 2009, 01:10:00 PM

Thank you all for your kind words and good thoughts. I will continue to poke my head in from time to time to make sure that TM and the Big C have not carried through on their plans to form the first UO Scripting sweat shop (they're supposed to wait until the real estate deal for that nasty little shack in Cambodia goes through). So keep the fun rolling.

Until next time

Bookwyrm

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: JustAnotherFace on November 17, 2009, 05:35:57 PM

BW,

I too know what its like to lose a loved one, though in my case it was an 8 year old daughter.  There is nothing that anyone can say or do that will make it any easier or any better for you.  Just know brother, that time does indeed heal all wounds.  Keep your faith and you will get thru this.  And as hard as it may seem now, you will look back and realize how blessed you have been.  Keep your chin up and like everyone else offered, if you need a sympathetic ear, just give me a shout.. I will be more than glad to listen.

JaF

Title: Re: ...And this is Goodbye
Post by: xenoglyph on November 19, 2009, 01:40:53 AM

I wish you the best.  Take care and come back soon.