Start with M&S and work down from there. This setup is for normal M&S and not the Factions one. L10 is sometimes difficult to attain/maintain.
I'd go HotL as mentioned in chat. Great resists and DCI which is critical in a Toe-to-Toe char.
Fey Leggings nice, but not necessary. You can skip the leggings, but you'll only be able to get to 45 DCI without them. Lot of people like the extra for when you get HLD'd... if it's a primary PvM char then you can pass on Fey and go with the Insane Tink's, or imbued.
Stormgrip if you need the DI. Most Samps don't have enough DI. Grip has so-so resists, but adds in that 25 DI which is a huge bonus.
So just with M&S (non-faction), HotL (faction), Crimmy (faction) and Grip (faction) you have:
55/29/43/28/43, Int 8, Str 10, HPI 10, HPR 2, Dex 15, HCI 10, DCI 15, DI 25, 30% HLD
That leaves you with 3 armor slots to pick up 15/46/27/47/32.
You have 3 imbued armor and 2 jewelry to pick up the rest of your points.
Armor: LMC, MR, HCI, DI, HPI, SI
Jewelry: LMC, DCI, HCI, DI, LMC, Stats, Skills
Jewelry: I recommend 8 Dex on each. It's one of the few places you can get it. Also, HCI/DCI/DI.
You can mix up the last stat.... LMC, Skill or Resist. I recommend LMC or Skill.