Seriously, Drop SS and go with Anatomy. You'll see a BIG increase in damage.
There's a few trains of thought on Samp builds (notice the derail reference snuck in?).
Swap Anatomy in and out with Resist depending on what your fighting.
Or what I'm currently doing....
Dropped Parry for Healing.
Yes you heard that right, I have no Parry on my Sampire. I lose the ability to evade which is huge, but I can heal more damage then I would have blocked... so Healing for me is a bit better then Parry.
OH, and with healing I can cross heal which is critical to the way I play
. Twin Sampires tossing 2 sec heals on each other while they LS and Crit something to death is a wonderful thing. It's so nice that sometimes I bring 3 
I disagree the damage bonus from Anatomy is nominal when using the right elemental weapon because you hit the cap already the Bonus from Anatomy (though not included in the Cap) is not worth it. With 120 Anatomy I was hitting Miasma for roughly 10 more points of damage instead of 80 I was doing 90. Not worth it...Elemental weapons will offset the bonus received from Anatomy.
Against monsters where there is no danger of dying Anatomy can be a nice perk. When there is a high risk of dieing you need more defense (Parry) and less offense (Anatomy).
I agree with Cerveza about swapping out Anatomy, Resisting Spells, and Parry depending on what your fighting. But as a general rule the damage bonus of Anatomy isn't what players make it out to be if your using Elemental Weapons.
Healing can be good against many monsters until you run into one that Poisons you. I doubt that template would work well against the Putrifier or Ilhenir. Many monsters don't poison though and it would probably be effective in more situations than it wouldn't.
I like being ready at all times for all things.

I'd keep the Spirit Speak and in fact bump it up to 80 (Lower the Chivalry= Put +15 Chivalry on the Ring and Bracelet). Curse Weapon which is based on Spirit Speak is the grand - Daddy Ace in the Hole Card and allows you to really get aggresive when you want to and can bail you out of some seriosly harry situations.
See...I told you we wouldn't all agree!
Confused yet Paulonius!?
