And damage is always the most important because that's what determines how much life/mana/stamina you leech. I would probly rate things in this order: Damage/Defense/(stamina/dex)/hld/hpi then everything else after, like hpr/sr/mr/mi all those... but in general, that first list is pretty good for order of what you want. High damage/defense, then stamina/dex, hit lower defense, and everything else you can.